"I want to thank all of the children here today who brought their parents with them."

Said Laura Bush to all the kids who came to the White House Easter Party. The parents included many gay parents, who made a special point of coming to the party this year to see how they would be treated. They were treated like every other kid's parents.

There was a rule articulated in advance about who could be admitted:

[C]hildren of all ages are welcome but there must be at least one aged under seven in each group and no more than two adults in each group.

No heterosexism there.